Pray for it
As wonderful as these gifts are, however, we should not overlook the more ordinary gifts of that same Holy Spirit.
Consider interpretation of tongues. This does not happen only in spectacular charismatic events. I humbly submit that it happens all the time: that out of what objectively might be considered gibberish or baby talk, a person hears and understands a powerful message from the Lord.
the next time you are listening to a really poor sermon
and pray for the gift of the Holy Spirit.