The process of discerning a vocation

"The two most important signs are:

• "First, the individual will feel the desire to serve God — a desire which goes beyond mere curiosity.
• "And secondly, there will be no impediments to pursuing a vocation (such as: having already entered into the married state). If these two signs are present, it could mean that the individual is authentically called to the priesthood or religious life.

"At this point, there are two mistakes someone might make. One would be to rush impulsively into a vocation without a period of discernment. (However, modern religious life is structured to minimize this possibility.) Another mistake would be to wait too long to pursue a vocation, while endlessly debating within oneself and being exposed to the temptations and allurements of the world. Certainly, the devil will try to derail as many true vocations as possible. And often, people have waited so long to answer God's invitation that they lose their opportunity.

"Fortunately, there are constructive things one can do to acquire a greater certainty about one's calling.

• "The first is to practice the Catholic faith assiduously — with devotion and reverence. Frequent the Sacraments, especially Mass and Confession. And try to remain always in a state of grace. (For how can God speak to you, if you sever communications with Him?)
• "Secondly, pray for the specific intention of knowing your vocation. Pray after receiving Communion and before the Blessed Sacrament. You might also want to make a novena, or have a Mass offered for your intention.It is particularly beneficial to seek the intercession of the Immaculate Mother of God in order to be more certain about your vocation. For just as she initiated Jesus' public life at the wedding feast of Cana, she is also the Mother of all true callings to the priesthood or religious life.
• "And lastly, seek the advice of someone who has experience in the discernment of vocations. For example, the vocation director for a religious order, or a diocese, would be experienced in this matter.It can be quite difficult to discover one's calling in life. Yet the struggle is well worth the peace and joy an individual experiences, when they finally know what God wants them to do.

"The Franciscan Missionaries of the Eternal Word would be interested in hearing from Catholic men, 21 to 35 years old, who think they might be called to a life such as ours. Our Vocation Director has helped many young men discern their vocations and he may be able to help you, too. Just click on the "Contact Us" link."

from the website of the Franciscan Missionaries of the Eternal Word